Bad Mom Monday’s – In which I knock my kid’s tooth out, to make a point- and lose. #EPICMOMFAIL

10418321_10204003894840689_4010609270357542301_nMom: “Eat your grapes.”

Son: “I can’t. Green grapes are gross.They’re sour. I only eat red ones.”

Mom: “These green grapes are not gross they’re sweet. Eat them.”

Son: “I will throw up.”

Mom: “You will not.” Mom eats grape to prove their yum-factor. “See? Would I lie to you?”

Son: Looks at mother incredulously. “They’re sour. I can tell.”

Mom: Makes older sons eat grapes and attest to their sweetness.

Son: Not convinced.

Mom: Loses her mind. Possibly due to stress, PMS or just plain old mom-variety cray-cray. Decides to force child to “taste and see”… after all it’s (almost) biblical. (Forget about the context- I told you she’d lost her mind.)

Son: Sees “that look” in moms eyes. Clenches jaw, shakes head.

Mom: Takes a grape and decides to mush it against son’s teeth just so he can taste the juice…..and her point can be made. (It made sense at the time.These things always do.)

Mom: Smashes grape against son’s front teeth.

Son: Begins to scream. Not because of the flavor of the grape- but because of the flavor of: blood.

401px-Green_and_red_grapesMom: Totally forgot that the son’s front teeth were loose- due to his being: 6. The age at which all children appear toothless for a season. But not quite this reason….

Son: Running to the bathroom- blood, spit and grape juice dripping from his mouth like a vampire who’s feasted after a 6 month fast. “YOU KNOCKED OUT MY TOOTH!!!”

Mom: Dies inside. Has visions of DSS arriving at any moment to remove all minors from the home. Also thinks for a brief moment: that might be a good idea. Grabs a dark colored washcloth to hide the blood from the green grape hater’s view. Because the only thing he hates more than green grapes is blood. Double bonus bad mom points.

Much crying- and apologizing and basically spoiling of child to make ammends-later-

Mom: “But the grape was sweet. I told you so.”

Son: “It tasted like blood.”

Mom: Never buys green grapes again. Is thankful they are homeschooling so child doesn’t go to school and tell this story tomorrow.(Although it will be told 12 million times over the course of their lives. Fact: son is only 12 now. Still won’t eat green grapes- tells everyone he meets this story. because: His moms a dork.)

Tooth Fairy- left a ridiculously huge guilt offering. (One of the few times she actually remembered to show up.)

True story.

Names withheld to protect: ME.

The bad mom.

Who always says:”never fight battles you can’t win- like food, sleep and potty.” The pastoral counselor who specialized in working with kids.

Yup. Her. I mean: me.

She’s not alone. You’re not alone. We’ve all been there. Done something crazy to make a point to our child- only to have it totally backfire.

My youngest still loves to tell the story about that time I knocked out his tooth at the dinner table….

He leaves off the fact that it was hanging my a gummy-thread. Of course.

Parenting is hard. There is no user manual that tells you how to get your strong willed child to just TRY the stupid green grapes.

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2 thoughts on “Bad Mom Monday’s – In which I knock my kid’s tooth out, to make a point- and lose. #EPICMOMFAIL

  1. OH MY GOODNESS!!! I also knocked my son’s VERY loose tooth out. I wanted to keep him home from kindergarten so he couldn’t share the story of how he lost his tooth. I truly thought I was the only one that this happened to.

  2. I can SO relate to this. I have been there and done that, so you may see something similar soon and truly know that you are not alone!

    My kids won’t eat green grapes either. It’s weird because growing up, that’s all we had. I don’t think I ever ate red ones…

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