“That can’t be right.” I said to the calendar, mocking me from it’s place of honor on the fridge.
I double checked.
It was. *Sigh.* I’m not sure how I managed to do it. I’m leaning towards blaming Apple for a syncing problem, how’s that? I have one appointment on the house calendar and one in my iPhone- for the same day.
I am double booked for next Friday. Speaking (On Loving Your Strong Willed Child ) and Second Grad Math Mom, in my youngest son’s class.
When I really looked at the appointments, (Skimming can cause undue panic- will I ever learn, that?) I discovered they don’t overlap. This time. It hasn’t always ended so well.
As a Work From Home Mom, I am on the short list for the school to call. I get calls to help with parties, to purchase and organize crafts and snacks and yes, to help with math explorations. I don’t just get the calls, I’m expected to do it. Don’t get me wrong,I want to be involved. I also have other commitments. Like speaking, meeting deadlines and writing. I can’t do it all. Sometimes I have to say “No.”
Saying “No.” in itself, is hard. People make it even harder. I hear things like: “Oh- I thought you were at home?” Or “But, you’re home during the day, right?” Sometimes it’s just a look. A look that communicates the same thing or worse.
I thought that being a Work From Home mom- would be the perfect answer for mothering. I’d always be there for my kids and always be able to do my job. It’s not. Sometimes, I have to leave a sick kid with his older brother, because I’m the scheduled speaker.
Sometimes, I can’t have three 7 year olds running through the house- even if it is midwinter break. I have a book proposal to complete. (Second graders playing hide and seek, while I write are a challenge even for this Multi-Tasking-ADD Queen.) I can’t do it all.
I can do what needs to be done. I am.
Work From Home Moms-
- Do you sometimes feel guilt tripped because you can’t do it all?
- Do others always respect your schedule?
- Have you ever found yourself double booked? What did you do?
- What kinds of things do you have to say “No” to?