Missional Toad

missional toad

Yes. Touching Toads.

I love kids. I love how they think- I love how they communicate and soak in the truth. But- ocassionally- there are a few “challenges”. See- I am a GIRL. My friends would say- the ALL CAPS in this case is necessary.

I’m not just a girl, I’m probably a “girlie girl”. Yesterday? I surprised a few little guys with the fact that I’m not afraid of Toads.

I was surrounded by some of the most fabulous little ones ever. We were havin fun- at a Baptism in my friends backyard- and pool. The grills were lit, smoke from ribs and burgers tickled our noses.

The boys were doin “boy stuff” like bossing around the girls— and chasing each other- and chasing— well- NOTHING. They were playing with cars, “Rescue Heroes” were being segregated from the “girls toys”.

Then, Joe- (one of my favorite- very big kids) found a toad. He was gonna let it go over the fence—-

NO WAY. Here is my moment….what do little boys like more than a toad?

NOTHING.

“Joe, Is that a toad? Can I have it????????” Was out of my mouth before I could think it through.

“Yeah, just let it go on the other side of the fence, when you’re done..” Was the answer.

(I don’t know why – maybe there is a toad infestation to be reckoned with, just outside their fence.)

I haven’t held a toad in years. It had been even longer since one pee’d on me. Let’s just say- today? It hasn’t been long ago. I’m “current” with my Toadie quota at the moment.

It was only seconds before the “Girlie boundary ” as broken. Little guys swarmed.

They wanted to hold the toad. I think they were a little surprised, that I was holding it. We giggled when the toad jumped free….to pee on my leg. Then we giggled again, when I scooped him up. Everybody gently touched Mr Toadie. No- we won’t get warts- that’s an old wives tale. (take it from an old wife;) We managed not to squash him.

Then, I put him outside the fence.

OK— so maybe you’re thinking a little funny- yes. Gross- too. But was it ministry?

Well… when we go to where others are— and reach past ourselves- to touch toads… we often find ourselves touching hearts.

Maybe it was in the reaching past the pre-concieved notions-(girls don’t touch toads) or maybe it was in the shared wonder of Creation… toads may be ugly— but they are cute and definitely are amazing. (

Maybe it was just in taking time to talk to them… but those little guys? (And girls) well- we hung out on a blanket and goofed for quite a while after that.

I think we connected.

Sometimes- we miss finding the little toads that could connect us with our kids- we’re too busy- or or distracted.

Truthfully- sometimes— I’m just not that “into” the same things as my kids.

My boys love video games. I think they are a waste of time. But- you know what? When I strap on that plastic guitar, and play a few songs on “Guitar Hero” Ok.. so I cna only play ONE song- and I’m Awful! But-aftwards…. I get a whole evening of heart to heart with them. (Once they’ve finished laughing- of course.)

I can’t play games all day- nor can my kids, (although they’d like too, I’m sure) and I sure I can’t always have a toad in my purse-(although- I suppose its possible there is one.. somewhere in the bottom- you never know what you’ll find in MY Purse;)

But- what if- for just a few minutes each day- we “touched toads?” We got involved in what our kids are into—- not invading their play and not allowing them to BE… but joining them, and letting love “happen”?

sounds like ministry to me….

1 Corinthinians 9:22-24

“To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all men so that by all possible means I might save some. I do all this for the sake of the gospel, that I may share in its blessings. Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize. “

Dear Lord- help us to see the missional toads in our midst- help us to love our kids- and the kids of others- in a way that makes a difference- everyday. I love you Lord- amen.

2 thoughts on “Missional Toad

  1. crazycatladymel says:

    I *swear* I picked up a toad this summer for the first time in YEARS and got a tiny wart on my left index finger. Haven’t had one of those since middle school.

  2. KayMac says:

    Toads and Guitar Hero. What everyone needs to imagine is you doing that w/ lots of BLING and High Heels!

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